Ive had that in synastry before. These cookies track visitors across websites and collect information to provide customized ads. Other people and things affected by Neptune are the mother, important women in the native's life, domestic life, and the home. My phone was checked often and I got questioned about many things, even though I carry 0% duplicity in relationships. Just like the song uh I can see this with absolute clarity. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. http://expreso.co.cr/centaurs/essays/redemption.html. Nessus may also indicate violence or sexual abuse between family members. Its something Ive worked incredibly hard on to control. Should i leave this guy ? Nessus represents the deepest shadow material that we inherit as a "pre-existing" condition of our human birth. I know why people lie. CERES Ceres, named after the Goddess of agriculture, harvest, fertility, motherhood, and the Earth, the daughterof Saturn in Roman mythology, is the largest object in the main asteroid belt located between the orbits of Mars and Jupiter. I understand that it indicates one able to detect abusive people from their auras. 3) He said he had to have sex at least 3 times a week Someone under this Nessus is completely passionate about their communication skills. So, food for thought! However, it is not prominent in every natal chart.I believe a prominent Nessus in a natal chart will be an abusive person. OMG You are spot on with me!! Any idea how this can be interpreted? xx. Let my solar return this year have 2450 on the 7th house axis in aries. I have asteroid veritas 490 25 aries opposite my pluto. Neptune is conjunct the full moon as well. The person will probably have difficulties identifying how the relations were abusive, making them stick around as they identify with abuse as an innate part of their life. I have that in my relationship now. I feel like Ive known him my whole life even thought I havent met him in person yet. IP: Logged. He keeps saying im his life, he never felt so complete and doesnt want to loose me. So who is mad here? However, Nessus Astrology is not fully accurate and doesnt show the facts about a persons life. I thought he probably would have liked some kind of sexual affair on the side where he could use me as a mistress separate from his wife and kids. You can look for Nessus in the birth chart which is called the natal chart, or you can look for Nessus in the relationship chart, which is called the synastry. One good thing about the Mars/Nessus is that you will stick up for yourself and you need it with the Venus/Nessus.Nessus trine Saturn will help you to control the Nessus. If one knows him, even casually, one may sense that the trait of abuse is very close to the surface. Do you have stomach problems, Lalou? Nessus in a relationship is easy to identify. If such an individual gets positively controlled by Chiron and Saturn, this Nessus can help to bring great changes in society. His Nessus conjunct my Mars in synastry, what does it means? I am not an abuser at all as i dont practice sex much either. I have Nessus almost 1 degree from my Sun. In some instances, Nessus, taken by Dejaniras beauty, tried and succeeded in raping the young woman. It this so? anyway i have a lot of ptsd from life & Cptsd from my marriage that is unhealed and when i do get angry, I DO get angry. Nessus with Moon in 1st house means strong oppressed anxieties. 6 degrees is much too wide for an asteroid so dont worry! The allowable orb for these aspects is generally considered 5 though opinions vary among astrologers. I bet other aspects fit in here, too, though, some planetary aspects, Katt. Nessus was in 5 degrees of Scorpio during its discovery, a sign linked to sex, rebirth, obsession, and death. Nessus Conjunct the MC This person may be known as an abuser such as OJ Simpson. Herakles left and began planning a revolt but forgot about Lole as time passed and married Dejanira. I recently come to this essay on nessus and feel it has got good points, Nessus maybe being abusing or being abused because of not being accepted for who we are and then reacting abusively to that hurt inner child. Nessus Asteroid orbits the Sun once in 122 years and four months. Thank you so much for this site and all your heard work! Chiron, Jupiter, and Saturn are planets that are considered positive planets in relation to Nessus as people controlled by these planets are usually unable to fight for themselves or fight for the victims of similar circumstances; instead, they are more likely to write about sexual assault or about those who have suffered abuse in the past. I mean, there were other things going on in the chart but nothing nearly as clear as this in terms of his level of abuse and it was everyone he was with, too. Not so much physical but I can say that Emotionally Ive cried and hurt many times with my lovers and I wonder if things would change. Hes been very emotional that day. Last december we made the plans to live with eachother, but he was suppose to come over with money with the sales of his houses. The centaur shows how primitive and unrestrained energy can cause damage and thus be destroyed by the same energy it intended to dominate. They stand for themselves through their verbal and written words. My nessus conjuncts his ascendant , moon and mercury . Look in my search engine. I hope I can do this when I tell you about my own life. All the people born the same year as you will also have the conj(not to venus of course). thanks for the fascinating article. Moon Conjunct Moon Transit Your lunar return, the day the transiting moon returns to form a conjunction with your natal moon, is an ideal time to assess your current feelings and emotional landscape. Our nessus conjuncts each others. Welcome Serina and thank you so much for commenting! Im a bit worried about this, because I learned that squares in fixed signs represent karmic patterns repeated in multiple past-lives (and I guess especially with Saturn, the lord of karma, in 12th ) The asteroid is named after Nessos because in Greek mythology, the centaur, driven by his uncontrollable desire and lust, leads him to abuse and manipulate. All these themes constitute the Nessus Astrology. i always assumed these issues were just from my repeatedly traumatic life and seemingly one of my many curses in my chart where im meant to brutally suffer so many variants of pain and torture from others so as to make sure i do make the changes in the world myself somehow? With North Node conjunct the Moon, the imagination is enhanced, and the mind is stable and strong, with accurate psychic sensitivities and reliable impressions. Chiron (2060) There Nessus is libra in the 8th house which technically Nessus belongs in the home of the 8th house. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. (.Nessus 3rd ?). Astronomically, Dark Moon Lilith is supposed to have a geocentric period of 119 days and to orbit at three times the distance of the Moon, while its diameter is said to be about one quarter that of the Moon. Dejanira believed Nessuss lies and took the blood just in case. I have an article on the North Node in Synastry. He was burned alive in a funeral pyre to end his misery. If you are interested, please e mail me, my Friend, Oh, and Nessus conjunct my North Node. Ami Ann , ive recently met a guy with whom ive embarked on an affair with. right near my ascendant of gemini 28 degrees. Pluto seems to make bad asteroids better, so I am not sure. Im not an abusive person, but when I get very angry, I have been known to slap. Here, it is better if the Moon person is the female and the Juno person is the male, as the Moon is associated with women. For some reference, he was also Scorpio Sun, Aries Moon. With Mars, you may be abusive. His mom and younger sister also had this build/hairstyle etc. Other uncategorized cookies are those that are being analyzed and have not been classified into a category as yet. i have identified a new role to get through. I know full well Ive proverbially cut him to the bone. So, if you nd Nessus in your birth chart, then you can conclude that it is one of the weakest points. Nessus conveys the personal experience of violent traumas and the combined efforts to counter such shocks. These two planets were in the 5th house too. Hello, Thank you! I have some cruelty, but dont we all? My arabic part of weddings/ legal contracts is 2442 aries. His sun also square pluto adding to the intensity. Im worried how that could play out as its my Nessus ? These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. hmmm im not sure i dont talk of this stuff much.. my husband has nessus 26degree gemini 4th house [same house as his moon but not conjunct]. When it comes to love life, this Nessus wins the arguments being a creative manipulator. i also have nessus and sun square pluto. Yes, this is all totally mental, isnt it? But I do sometimes like think negative thoughts about people like a bully thought in my mind, like this person is so annoying, etc. Im resilient and tend to not let my past define me, and unless Ive specifically told somebody about my traumatic past, they have no idea. I am sorry, C! The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Performance". Deianira, suspecting Herakles of infidelity, became insecure, jealous, and fearful of Herakles abandoning her, so she soaked a robe in Nessos blood and gave it to him to put on. However, they may be required to handle some trauma, difficulties, or betrayal, but there is the opportunity for redemption. YES, the square is a whole different thing than the conjunction or any other aspect cuz it is locked and polarized, in my opinion, Hence, I can see where you would feel frustrated and stuck, my Friend. But it feels so double, like i dont know him and the parts i do know.. Nessus is often dubbed The abuser asteroid in astrology as it represents the areas of life where one is, CERES IN ASTROLOGY: The Nurturance Asteroid, PSYCHE IN ASTROLOGY: The Soul Asteroid (16), LUNAR PERIOD: The Moon and Menstrual Cycles. I am sorry you went through that, my Friend. Also, and perhaps more importantly are planets more important that asteroids when looking at synastry? We have nessus conjunct venus in our composite chart . Thank you for your answer! January 28, 2013. They even begin to start treating themselves in the way their abuser treated them. nessus angle with other planets makes one crooked. Hes said hurting me hurt him, too, only his explanation was so centered around his own pain that he never really acknowledged the fact of my suffering at all. Is such a thing possible ? I finally tried to look up some asteriods also in my own natal chart. (Linda-Goodman.com) What is suggested by a man's Nessus square the woman's Venus, and the woman's Nessus square the man's Moon and Saturn, all at very close degrees? Or listened to someone who refers to a specic person as Nessus due to his abusive behavior? Nessus conjunct mercury could indicate verbal communication to manipulate or abuse. Thank you so much for your comment, J. I am sorry you went through that! Im certainly not an abuser as an adult. He was incredibly honest about his shortcomings and maybe thats why I thought he was harmless? I do charge for charts. In his workplace his temper and words have caused so much drama and so many people have departed his company, but it was never his fault lol. I traced his google maps and found out dates where and when he met his ex, where she lives too. Im crying as i write this.. Though I recently found out that Nessus weighs on my Natal Chart. IP: Logged. I want this to be an interesting thread. There were people in my life who hated me instantly without knowing anything about me and bullied me. Hi Ami I was hoping you might have some info or insight about Oculus conjunct nessus in synastry ? Hes very successful in his field with his female partner- his Nessus squares her Mercury, Venus and Mars. Honestly, people want to tell me Nessus is all manner of things. Pain from abuse I would say OR maybe abuses others as a way to deal with his pain but I think the former. Great post, my friend. Thanks ! The next day i studied the arabic parts and it confirmed it again. I dont know if its because both Nessus and Mars sit in Cancer, or because Ive had a boatload of therapy, I dont think I **am** abusive, just reactionary. They change the manner in which they treat others. thanks, A. xoxoxo. If Nessus falls in the 12th house, 7 degrees from the Ascendant, is that still conjunct? The Juno person sees the Moon person as someone who understands them and tales . The good aspects can be attributed to the aspects of planets like Saturn, Jupiter, and Chiron. Advertisement cookies are used to provide visitors with relevant ads and marketing campaigns. Let me try to explain it better. His eyes sort of glitched (or lightened?) The cookies is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Necessary". Maybe not, but thats on him to figure out. For him im tripping about the past but emotionally it doesnt feel right.. I cant engage in anything unless its in truth. I also have Nessus sextile Jupiter and Nessus trine Saturn and semi square with mercury. I dont agree. I feel very vulnerable when I am in group (aquarius) and on social media. Last Edit: Feb 11, 2018 3:44:41 GMT by 12YearsABlob. The planets are all in the sign of virgo. Similarly, the 4th house is used for Gemini, and information is extracted by reading it in the Natal charts. Almost feels like Im never satisfied no matter who I am with. I did my ancestry DNA last year. There are 12 houses of Nessus divided according to the sun signs, such as the rst house belongs to Aries, the second house to Taurus, and so on. Pluto can give the person a good power so that the bad side of the asteroid does not come out but the person is strong in the area, K. Holy shit. The orbits are not stable. https://www.universetoday.com/97571/how-many-asteroids-are-out-there/. I have had an instance of seeing a black shadow being with arms reaching to grab at me and it had glowing red eyes, not red eyes like reptiles, but red eyes as if someone had Illumined lights for eyes. That is just a guess. It doesn't have to play out this way, but it is something to be aware of. Without understanding why something hurts another person, you cannot correct yourself and keep from preemptively causing more harm. Another term, Nessus Astrology, comes into the picture when an individual talks about Nessus. Ive been trying to find out, I have Nessus conjunct my Vertex and Lilith, 8H Cancer. Pluto in my fourth house. Great research and thanks for sharing! Chiron (discovered 1977) is the crystal with many facets. How To Interpret Nessus Conjunct Various Planets and Angles. Nessus can be seen as an unevolved and uncontrolled Pluto. I suppose the abusing in my case is about not working (house 6). This thing slowly hinders the potential to become self-actualized. One can not control a windstorm that sweeps into their life;but one can adapt, create a safe shelter, make a hang glider and learn to surf the wind- ultimately overcoming the windstorm and harnessing it to use it for good. That which conjuncts the MC cannot be hidden from public view. Could you please shed some light on this if possible? Also in the Sagittarius 9th house I have Pluto but I dont think it has any affiliations with the Nessus in that house. let me know what you think. When i talk about it, he gets upset, so its fruitless.. In other stories, he just abducted her. id like to know more about this. Your English is amazing, May! You had pain due to abuse, I would say. Nessus Conjunct the Descendant This native may deny his own abusive nature ( and we all have the potential for abuse) and find an abusive partner. My parents didnt protect me, and I endured a LOT of sexual assault in my teen years and wound up in a very abusive relationship from 20-26. This minor planet has a dark reddish color and is elongated with a diameter of 60 km or 37 miles. Part two in this series is called Tools for the Frontier. I found him very attractive and would really have fallen for him is circumstances allowed. I knew of a pimp. The most well-known goddess asteroids are Juno, Vesta, and Pallas. The prominence of Nessus in ones chart can indicate extremes; abusers or those who dont respect sexual boundaries and those who stand against abuse and fight for people who abuse victims. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Analytics". My nessus conjuncts his desc. Im looking at someones chart now that has Nessus in less than 1 degree orb of Pluto. Please list each aspect alone because it is too hard on this format to do a complex question. Nessus Asteroid has a number 7066. Almost everyone from 1964-1967 trigg my moon through their nessus. Like if you were born at a wrong place and time you are doomed and don't even deserve love.". 8) He insisted I was cheating on him with a guy that lived thousands of miles away, because we were friends for many years before. Pholus persona chart moon conjunct Sun is also interesting. Pluto seems to make bad things good, so I am not sure about this, my Friend. I think he is verbally abusive sometimes/often..I have never been in a very long relationship..trying to have/find a healthy one not another abusive one. Any major aspectual relationships, namely, conjunctions, sextiles, squares, trines, and oppositions that Nessus forms with the personal planets (Sun, Moon, Mars, Mercury, and Venus) and points (Ascendant, Descendant, Medium Coeli, and Imum Coeli), are given primary importance while interpreting the effects of its natal position. It is also possible to calculate it using asteroids. Nessus is abuse. I really dont know what to do now.. When I was a child I did things to other kids that I deeply regret, I dont know why I behaved that way. He lied to me as well, not in his eyes, he didnt lie it was none of my business. And very suddenly he has completely backed offtreating me professionally and no extra words or attention at all. It may be linked to his goals such as his drive for career. i had abuse issue in relationships, long time ago. My arabic part of partners, saggitarius 1552 conjunct his natal neptune 1539 in 8th house There could be a fatal attraction or being obsessed with someone. Nessus would not give his desires to anyone else even if he cannot have Dejanira. Nessus sextile AC in synastry? What could this mean? Its behaviors vary depending on the natal aspects that hit it. cant remember which but his had a terrible accident that messed up his head and he has had bad luck his whole life in general. Nessus is a unique term that may be unheard of for many of the ears. Hello! Youre a wonderful teacher, thank you for this information. "Lastly, no one is ever born in the wrong place at the wrong time. I have a strong attraction to libra in general. if(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[728,90],'cosmicdeity_com-large-mobile-banner-1','ezslot_9',111,'0','0'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-cosmicdeity_com-large-mobile-banner-1-0');For instance, if the Nessus has hard aspects, then he will show the dark side, and if struck by good aspects, then he will turn out to be a problem solver. FWIW, my moon and sun conjunct in 10th house (Virgo) and I have a cradle in my charts. It means that they start thinking negatively for themselves and get into the mentality to take part in violent actions. Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. These cookies help provide information on metrics the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc. And although I wouldnt stereotype everyone because as you have also stated we all have a choice to act out on negative things within us or not, that being stated I have done some research out of curiosity regarding some extremely narcissistic and abusive persons and WOW, I have 3 examples right here; Casey Anthony (the young mother in Florida acquitted for murdering her own small child a few years back has Nessus conjunct her ascendant, next there is Bill Cosby who has Nessus in a T-square involving his Mars in Scorpio(no surprise there) and his Saturn, and lastly I just looked up that girl, I forget her name but she was on Dr. Phil and goes by the stage name of bhad Barbie or something, lol, the Cash me outside teenager, and her Moon is conjunct Nessus! im not saying i am not evil in a way, but it has never come across my path, people always see me as sunny, happy (sun conjuct ac) but never evil, so im left wondering. What stands out first is that Nessus, the third centaur planet (discovered 1993), is precisely conjunct his Moon, which as I mentioned is two hours before the exact New Moon. That is something to consider and I suppose what you say makes a lot of sense! So, can anyone please change the direction of the discussion back to discussing the astrology of Nessus conjunct Mars and the potential of abuse from these aspects in a synastry chart ?